The Knot Tightening Around CRE: What It Means for Family Offices

Eddie Luhrassebi

Commercial real estate is not in free fall, but it is undeniably tightening. Family Offices that have been active in the space can feel it in conversations with sponsors, in revised valuation marks, and in the subtle shift in tone from lenders. The pressure is not always loud. In many cases, it shows up as a quiet request for flexibility, a delayed refinance, or an unexpected inquiry about preferred equity. These signals matter, because they point to a market that is adjusting in real time.

This is not another broad commentary about a real estate downturn. It is about what is happening right now at the deal level and what Family Offices should be doing as loan maturities stack up, values reset, and capital structures are tested.

Loan Maturities Are Driving the Timeline

The most immediate issue facing commercial real estate is not occupancy or even rent growth. It is debt. A significant volume of loans originated in a low rate environment are reaching maturity over the next twelve to twenty four months. Many of these loans were underwritten with assumptions that no longer hold. Rates are higher. Lenders are more conservative. Proceeds are lower.

Sponsors are discovering that refinancing is no longer a straightforward process. A loan that once covered seventy percent of value may now only support fifty five or sixty percent. That gap has to be filled somewhere. For Family Offices invested in these deals, this is often the moment when a capital call or restructuring conversation begins.

The key issue is timing. Waiting until a maturity is only weeks away limits options and increases stress. Family Offices that are engaging early, reviewing debt schedules, and understanding upcoming maturities across their portfolios are in a far stronger position to influence outcomes.

Values Are Resetting, Not Collapsing

One of the more challenging aspects of the current market is the uncertainty around value. Appraisals are coming in lower, but not uniformly. Assets with strong locations, stable tenancy, and realistic leverage are holding up better than many expected. Others, particularly those with floating rate debt or heavy value add assumptions, are feeling the strain.

For Family Offices, the danger is not a markdown itself. It is making decisions based on outdated expectations. Deals underwritten in 2021 or 2022 may still be sound, but the path to liquidity has changed. Extending hold periods, adjusting return targets, and rethinking exit strategies are now part of prudent portfolio management.

This is also where experience matters. Understanding which value declines are cyclical and which reflect deeper issues allows families to allocate capital thoughtfully instead of defensively.

Sponsors Are Quietly Hunting for Capital

One of the most telling signs of the current environment is how sponsors are raising capital. Instead of broad announcements or formal offerings, many are reaching out selectively. Conversations start informally. A question about appetite. A request for flexibility. An introduction framed as a potential partnership rather than a funding need.

Preferred equity and rescue capital are becoming more common tools. For sponsors, these structures can bridge refinancing gaps or stabilize assets without triggering a full recapitalization. For Family Offices, they can present compelling opportunities, but only when structured correctly.

The challenge is that not all rescue capital is created equal. Some requests are well thought out and designed to preserve long term value. Others are reactive and aim to delay hard decisions. Distinguishing between the two requires a clear understanding of the asset, the sponsor’s balance sheet, and the broader capital stack.

What Family Offices Should Be Doing Right Now

The current moment calls for proactive engagement rather than passive monitoring. There are several practical steps Family Offices can take.

First, conduct a portfolio level review focused specifically on debt. Identify assets with maturities within the next two years. Understand current loan terms, extension options, and lender relationships. This exercise alone often reveals where pressure is likely to surface.

Second, engage sponsors in open dialogue before issues become urgent. Asking how refinancing assumptions have changed or how they are thinking about capital gaps does not signal weakness. It signals partnership.

Third, establish internal criteria for additional capital. Not every deal should be supported equally. Clear guidelines around when to provide follow on capital, when to restructure, and when to step back help remove emotion from the decision making process.

Fourth, be prepared to act selectively. The tightening market is creating opportunities for well capitalized Family Offices to invest higher in the capital stack with better protections than were available in recent years. Preferred equity, structured debt, and co investments can all play a role when approached with discipline.

Experience Matters More Than Ever

This phase of the cycle rewards patience, clarity, and experience. Family Offices that understand real estate fundamentals and capital structures are better equipped to navigate the tightening environment. The goal is not to avoid risk entirely. It is to understand where risk is shifting and to respond intentionally.

Commercial real estate is adjusting to a new reality. Loan maturities, valuation resets, and evolving capital needs are part of that adjustment. Family Offices that stay close to their portfolios, engage early with sponsors, and approach each situation with a steady hand are not just managing risk. They are positioning themselves to emerge stronger on the other side.